*nod* I don't like stories where there's a d/s emotional relationship. It works for me as a bedroom game, with either men or women in either role, but I don't like serious, emotional power imbalances as the basis of the relationship. I can take it for a few chapters, but eventually the 'weaker' party has got assert his/herself.

ETA: using my Hermione/Ron icon, because you know she's in charge. :D